I do have limits set but they are high enough where this wouldnt be an issue.
I was able to have this happen to me once during an order on the site, when you fill out the order form it lags for about 3 seconds then comes up with the mysql error. At that time the error is also emailed to me.
The machine is locked down to a set of about 100 IP's (for mysql), everything else is rejected so I dont think people could be doing any type of DDoS attack on it.
The system loads are as follows:
Really no reason this should be happening.